那种痛苦使你谦下而卑微,削弱了你的自尊。
That pain humbles you and strips down your ego .
而道的本质在于顺应自然、在于谦下、虚静、无欲、无为。
And the essence of the Tao lies in harmony with nature , modesty , void-quietness , no-desire , inaction .