己所不欲

己所不欲，勿施于人。

Do not do to others what you would not have them do to you .

己所不欲，勿施于人。

Don 't do to others what you wouldn 't like to be done to yourself .

底线就是己所不欲勿施于人，这样晚上才能睡的香。

The bottom line is you sleep well at night by treating people the way you want to be treated .

己所不欲，勿施与人。

What you do not want done to yourself , do not do it others .

请遵守黄金法则：己所不欲，勿施于人。

Apply the golden rule : treat others the way you would like to be treated .

子曰：若要报复别人，最好挖两个坟墓。（己所不欲，勿施于人）

Confucius one dose : Therefore you unbar on the journey on revenge , dig two graves .

最好的建议：别忘了通常的礼貌，己所不欲勿施于人。

The best advice : Remember common courtesy and act toward others as you want them to act toward you .

老师常教导说己所不欲，勿施于人，却强迫我们重背课文。

Teachers say never force others to do what they don 't want to do , but force us to recite .

子曰：“己所不欲，勿施于人。”

The Master said , " What you do not want done to yourself , do not do to others . "

我们经常会把“己所不欲，强施于人”，从而就把自己内心矛盾的原因归于别人。

We ascribe feelings that we do not want to someone else , thus locating the source of our conflict outside ourselves .

只要有人拒绝接受“己所不欲，勿施于人”的原则，冲突和压迫就将长期存在。

Conflict and repression will endure so long as some people refuse to do unto others as we would have them do unto us .

中国人历来讲求“己所不欲，勿施于人”。

Chinese people are particular about " Don 't do to others what you don 't want others to do to you " all long .

中国古代思想家孔子说过：己所不欲，勿施于人。

Confucius , the ancient Chinese thinker , taught us that , Do not do onto others what you do not want others do onto you .

中华文明历来崇尚和为贵、和而不同，己所不欲、勿施于人。

The Chinese civilization cherishes peace and advocates maintaining harmony while allowing for difference and that never do to others what you would not like them to do to you .

毕竟，“己所不欲，勿施于人”可是黄金法则，但做老好人也会有消极的一面。

After all , the Golden Rule does state to treat others how you 'd like to be treated yourself . However , being too nice could have a downside or two .

孔夫子的教导：“己所不欲，勿施于人”、“闻过则喜”是明智的并值得我们遵循。

Confucian teachings such as : " do not do to others as you would not want done to you " and " one should be delighted to hear criticism ," are wise and worthwhile .

想一想爱荷华大学劳伦斯所说的白金规则：己所不欲，勿施于人。换句话说，就是停下来，去倾听。

Consider what Dr. Lawrence , of the University of Iowa , calls the Platinum Rule : ' Do unto others as they would have you do unto them . ' In other words , stop and listen .

即使中国发展强大起来，我们也不会称霸，因为中国在近现代历史的惨痛遭遇中有深刻感受，己所不欲，勿施于人，这是中国人的信条。

Even if China becomes stronger , we will not seek hegemony because we have learned from our bitterest experience in the modern period that one should not impose on others he himself does not desire . This is an article of faith for us .